50 Questions You Can Ask Your Significant Other


Whether you have just started dating or have been together for many years it's never too late to learn something new about your significant other.


I've compiled a list of different questions that could be fun to ask your partner over dinner or on your next date. What's fun is you may think you know the answer, but could find out you don't. Another option is you may have known the answer once, but as time/your relationship has progressed, their answers could have simply changed. So it's nice to go through them at any level of the relationship.


  1. What's the name of the first book you couldn't put down?

  2. Why are you not friends with your first friend anymore?

  3. What did your mom cook for you when you were sad?

  4. What's on your bucket list?

  5. What do you notice first in a person?

  6. What did you notice first about me?

  7. What scares you the most?

  8. What is something that always makes you laugh?

  9. What does love mean to you?

  10. What are your 5 best memories, and why?

  11. What is your dream holiday vacation?

  12. If you were given a superpower what would it be?

  13. If you won a lottery of 1 million dollars what would you do?

  14. How would you spend your last day on earth?

  15. What would be your dream career job be?

  16. What do you want to be remembered for?

  17. What makes you most annoyed?

  18. When have you been most proud of yourself?

  19. What have your failures and achievements taught you?

  20. Describe yourself in 3 words.

  21. What is your most embarrassing moment?

  22. What are your biggest insecurities/fears?

  23. What is the nicest thing you have ever done for someone?

  24. What is the meanest thing you have ever done to someone?

  25. What core values will you never comprise?

  26. Describe the perfect day.

  27. What qualities do you prefer in a partner?

  28. What has been the most defining moment of your life?

  29. Do you have any regrets?

  30. If you could change anything from your past what would it be?

  31. What is one thing you could never get tired of?

  32. What is one global event that disturbed or had a huge impact on you?

  33. What are you most prized possessions you can't bear to lose?

  34. Who are you 5 biggest support systems in life?

  35. What is the best/worst advice you have ever received?

  36. What is the best part of our relationship?

  37. If you could relive 3 top memories in this relationship what would they be?

  38. What are my best qualities?

  39. What are 3 top financial goals we should aim for?

  40. Who influenced you the most while growing up?

  41. What are some traditions you would like us to start as a family?

  42. What turns you on?

  43. What is your wildest fantasy you have never shared with me?

  44. What is your favorite activity to do with me?

  45. What is something you have always wanted to try with me?

  46. When do you feel closest to me?

  47. What movie or song reminds you of me?

  48. If you had to choose between short lived passionate love or eternal unconditional love what would you choose?

  49. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

  50. What is something you have never told anyone?

Have fun getting to know one another!

Much Love, Reba Faye

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